Do you have fear and phobia of meeting new people? Are you someone who wants all those you love? Do you feel anxious in a social setting? A couple of years ago, I said yes to the above questions, however, have managed to gain the confidence to deal with these situations and enjoy. In this article I will write about how I managed to achieve this goal.
There are many people who feel uncomfortable when it comes to meeting new people. Will be quite shy and seemingly afraid of what these new people react to them and treat them. They may ask certain questions like, what if I do not like this new person? What if they think I'm stupid or boring? They may be counting on their social skills and the ability to make a good impression, people always say that first impressions are important, and this only adds to the pressure. All this stress and fear is not good and is certainly not going to help in a situation when you have to worry about anything ever helped anyone?
I had a speech impediment known as stuttering or stammering, this was a significant negative impact on their confidence and led to huge frustration for me to live. It was not as if I had a stuttering every word or every situation, and sometimes I could speak quite well, so the frustration.
Every time I had to meet new people, demons, my head or I am always questions about how the person reacts, if you do not stutter when you talk about him / her? What happens if the block and I can not say anything, how can I explain that this new person? So I really do not have fear and phobia of meeting new people. This may seem a trivial problem for people who rely on socialization, but there was something that caused me great concern and stress. It 'made by participating in interviews, meetings, and that some of the employment battle.
In the end I decided that I needed to improve my life and gain confidence. I tried to do this by reading lots of books and self-confidence physcology, I also performed at the same time disposed of a stutter. About a year I managed to work very hard to get a smooth surface and had learned a lot of stress, fear, phobias and confidence.
Now, I like meeting new people and have the attitude that I do not care if I like it or not. Some people will take me some do not. Some people think they are interesting to me, others think I'm boring. At the end of the day, life is too short in my opinion, to convey too much about what others think of us.
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