Finally someone has the courage to say what the NLP community, said that all the time. Phobia anxiety, shyness and social have mental illnesses. A new book by Christopher Lane, "Shyness: How Normal behavior are sick," reveals the behind the scenes, a psychiatric center, in collaboration with the pharmaceutical industry and to create a "billable" and "perscribable" labels that are used to maintain normal behavior. Lane points out that the previous "shyness" was considered an eccentric, at worst. Now, it is considered a spiritual disease!

In my private practice as a Master Practitioner in NLP, I have found over and over that shyness, phobias, severe anxiety and panic attacks are the result of an emotional charge, "once made to learn" and to anticipate negative outcomes. In other words, are the patterns and habits of thought and focus, not the disease. The first time I worked with a client phobia / anxiety, they simply followed the process taught me Dr. Tad James NLP course in my Master.

10:00 my client could actually on the verge of collapse, just thinking about driving across the bridge. Even the word "bridge" has resulted in his palms to sweat and his face pale. By 16:00, the answer to the fear was gone and he might be tempted to think and talk about bridge heights, and driving across bridges without emotion. That night he drove the entire main deck. His mother, a passenger in the car were amazed. He had seen a severe phobia of the bridge for over 30 years. Later, during a party he went, he went out on the balcony on the second floor of even thinking about it. Previously, it was far away to hug the wall to avoid fainting.

I thought maybe it was an accident. But from this point, I've always been able to help my clients phobia and anxiety they feel quick relief, without drugs and weeks and weeks of therapy. Usually a meeting every day with some follow-up is sufficient to give complete relief.

I helped students who could not raise my hand in class or say hello in the room, testing anxiety nurses pass their boards, professionals who could not pick up the phone or go to a networking event, people with germ phobia severe phobia of insects, driving phobia, phobias, dating, whatever. Each of these cases was a way of thinking and concentrating. The customer is using your mind to create a negative experience intense. I just teach them to use the same process they already use, but for a different result.

But look at any psychology book that is not even a mention of NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming), Timeline Therapy (TM), Ericksonian hypnosis and (Emotional Freedom Technique) EFT. These are the tools I use every day to help people to transform their shyness, anxiety or phobias and things feel comfortable doing the same thing used to scare. However, these traditional sources have much to say about drugs and "desensitization." Before you start taking certain drugs with doubtful efficacy and side effects heavy or commit to years of talk therapy each week, at least do some research!

"Google", NLP Therapy, EFT and Timeline. Lane Crhistopher read a book, "Shyness, how normal behavior became a sickness" (Yale University Press).

The point is: they are not sick. Far from it. It can be sensitive, imaginative, intelligent and introverted (each client has agreed that the description). Maybe you had a strong, even traumatic, "a time of learning events', which led to you doing your best to avoid the recurrence of a situation. You can worry yourself sick, or" freak out "something that does not seem worry about anyone else. But you are not sick.

You use your mind to make you unhappy. Using NLP you can change ... Quick.

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